In any relationship listening without interrupting your partner is very important. You see, when you don't listen, it says many things. It says that you don't respect your partner and what they have to say doesn't mean anything to you. It shows that you are not patient because it takes patience to wait for the other person to finish what they are saying.
It also shows that you don't have any self control which is to keep quiet while your partner is speaking. It also shows that you are only interested in yourself and your own thoughts. James 1:19 says we should be quick to listen but slow to speak. Nothing, when you are in the middle of an argument will get resolved if you both keep interrupting each other or talking over one another and getting louder and louder in the process. Hear me when I tell you this. If you get this area under control, your relationship will only get better.
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